A number of factors help keep marriages and families functioning in a healthy way. And having a close relationship with another couple is one of those factors. Research continues to show that couples who have a close relationship with another couple have stronger and happier marriages and families for several reasons:
- The couple gets to watch another couple walk the ups and downs, the highs and lows, of life. It provides a kind of model for their own journey.
- Friendship with another couple kindles a fresh appreciation of each other in marriage. One gets to see his or her partner in a new way and appreciate afresh their wit, charm, warmth or kindness. Watching one’s partner in a close personal relationship can be refreshing and positive.
- Friendship with another couple helps keep the couple – and the family – from becoming isolated. Isolation is one of the marks of a dysfunctional family and marriage. Maintaining a close friendship with another couple and engaging with them socially is a great way to avoid isolation.